“One Daughter’s Concern for her Mother in Greenville, SC”
Growing up, I would consider my relationship with my mother to be a relatively close one. As I became an adult and moved out, issues arose in our relationship and I ended up spending less and less time with her or even talking to her. As I matured more and she aged, we were able to work through our differences and forged a stronger and closer relationship. Now that she is in her late 70s, I noticed how much she was struggling with some aspects of her personal care.
What I noticed more than anything was that she didn’t seem comfortable. Her legs had weakened to the point where she lost her balance frequently. Even with the assistance of a walker, she still seemed to have trouble going to the car, walking through stores, and sometimes even getting down the hall to the kitchen.
I knew she had trouble in the shower, and we spent a significant amount of money adding grab bars and other safety features, including a shower seat. The more that I seem to do, the more I seem to notice her struggles. Her struggles became my struggles… To find comfort for her.
I didn’t mention my concerns with friends or even other family members. My mother was a very private person and she did not want other people knowing about her issues. Yet I did talk to a coworker about what I was dealing with and I am grateful that I did.
This coworker told me to look into in-home health care services. I did not know much about home care services, but I was willing to try anything for my mother.
I began calling around to various agencies and I even responded to some ads I found in the local newspaper. What I learned was that an in-home care provider, more commonly referred to as a home care aide, could provide a significant support system for my mother to help her live at home and be independent.
Within the first couple of weeks, I noticed a significant change in my mother’s personality and demeanor. She was happier, seemed more comfortable, and was getting involved in activities that I thought she either lost interest in or would never be able to do again.
Home care services changed everything for my mother, and for me. I would suggest anyone who has a loved one who struggles with his or her basic care at home contact in-home health care services in their area and find out what comfort they could offer.
If you or an aging loved one are considering hiring home care services near Greenville SC, contact Heart of the Carolinas Home Care at 864-991-3116.
Providing Home Care Services in Greenville, Simpsonville, Greer, Anderson, Spartanburg, Mauldin, Seneca, Laurens,Charleston, Columbia and the surrounding areas.
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